Being loved or to love – what’s more important?

There might be instances where you expect something out of something or someone…

But to your despair those desires aren’t fulfilled, so what? Should we just give up? Sulk? Or are there any ways other than being sorry or feeling just not content with whatsoever…

Maybe these things will give you new energy to drive u n lead u to a new destination all together….but the feelings just refuse to go away, how much ever u try….how much ever u want to feel the same way….u just can’t n can’t help it either….

There will be times when how much ever u love a person…..it’s just not enough for that person  n u wonder whether u loved enough??? But when the feelings are true….u know that there’s no switch for u to turn off or for the power of love to just cut off….or rather just expect a fuse diffuse!!!!

But trust me rather than just resisting the feeling of loving someone which will do no good to you…it’ll just add on to ur burden of trying to reduce the feeling….

So better keep feeling the way u feel….as it is nobody can control whom to love, how much to love, in what way to love…n so on….nor u n neither the person whom u love can change or stop it..

Keeping the fuel burning in the lamp n feeling the heat n light is more important than thinking who lit the lamp n to whom it’s providing heat to… so it’s not bad to feel in a way for someone n keep feeling the same way without expecting from the other end……it’ll surely give u a feeling of satisfaction n contentness which u MIGHT not feel ever for any other person.

It’s not necessary for the person whom you love to be there for you always, by ur side… it’s fine even if he/she doesn’t love u… but u do at least… don’t stop loving just bcoz ur not loved…. Loving someone also gives immense pleasure n satisfaction only if u know how much to expect n how much to love….

Long back I had read somewhere that “u should be with a person who loves u, than with whom u love, as u can learn to love but u can’t teach to love” ….. beautiful right??? But then now I think what if there’s no one to love u? then wud u stop loving the one whom u do? Can u? so better stop trying so hard to be loved n continue the way u love bcoz u might feel better…

Many people just have a feeling that wish they were loved or them to love somebody but at least u got one feeling of knowing what the feeling is….. cherish that, maybe till forever… but once u started cherishing it n falling in love with the feeling of loving someone….trust me u’ll love yourself….now look at the bright side….u love someone….n someone loves u (urself)…..

World might turn upside down, u may never know when n how??? U might not be able to manipulate things but u’ll know, u feel truly only when u still feel the same way even after the world turning upside down…sides changing…partners changing….still…..feelings….feelings…the same….so let it be….the feelings at least if not the person!!!!