Love stories – To live it or leave it?

        

I was a kid then but this topic is so common from kids to seniors.

As a child I was taught to love n show affection towards everybody, maybe I’ll teach my child the same but what’s the reality?

Does so much of love & affection exist? Even if we show our caring, are we greeted back the same way?

I grew on mills & boons big time & I’m just dazzled by these writers who can pen down such minute details of a person’s feelings. And the prince charming coming on a white horse is so typical to think of, that girls are now thinking of white merc than a horse, right?

But do they even exist? Or are they hidden in coal mines to be easily found down in the dark? World has definitely turned to something else where it reflects shades of grey, so now the prince is out there in grey suit I guess.

Now the world is so politically correct that there’s hardly any space left for concern of anybody’s feelings.

Relationships are developed, there’s closeness like there’s nothing on earth that can part you but things turn sour just for you to realize that things can go wrong; there can be bitterness which is just ready to strangle you to the core. Then once adored & loved relation’s status is updated to: simply can’t share what’s the thing, as you enjoyed doing before. Why is this bitterness? Can’t things be solved with the same feelings from where you think while starting a relationship than working up the politically & morally correct MIND? Why can’t people go wrong where you forget that you are also a same product all together?

Though you want to feel the same, things change around you & so do the people, but the real question is will you feel the same for anybody else? Have the same kind of friendship, trust, love, affection?

Will your heart start beating fast just as it use to at a glimpse of that person & you to still pretend as its just because of not have had anything since morning?

If such is a life diary then what are those books & movies about which show you just a dream & then you need to come to your senses just to realize the way the world works & then do the same thing which I just criticized here. Is it worth the turmoil we go through? Can’t relationships take a better shape so as to maintain its respect & dignity? Now having a relationship is not that great as maintaining it, now that's a task.

Is love enough for the relationship to sustain? Or you need compatibility? Time? Respect? Nurturing? Caring? What is that exact mix that will assure a good & stable relationship? Or still it’ll be short of something? Still everything will go for a toss? You never know, you will never know. This leads to an insecurity which is hard to deal with & is certainly your next ingredient for a failed relationship ahead.

So what are the do’s & don’ts? Answers awaited!!!!!!